An Ominous Feeling

[xCleavage]

game supposed to be fun..
ask ur friend to leave and start on a new server or game or anything, if she willing to..

cheer on my "2 months older" friend

[danyt1]

[Janite]

The OP told someone to "keep that sorta **** to themselves" in regards to their -seemingly harmless- suggestion, while whining about being bullied. hahaha

This has got to be some kind of troll post.

[EdGrr]

I'm sorry that whole thing turned out so darn long I'm mildly autistic and cant even explain this in shorter or simpler terms plus this chat box, it
tends to not always work with me too well but I left knowing what was best for me in which Linkoneusc just explained my way of trying to say
things well for others to understand me on an equal end is quite hard sometimes, Its like a puzzle I'm still trying to fit in but won't go in till
someone helps me puts it in the right spot or at least points it out for me if I need it. Sometimes I type due to my impatience and frustration
which is my fault sorry about that. T.T

which server are you in currently and just name out the bully "champion" to us all if possible. alot of people care about you. dun give up easily. stay happy.

[secretfox]

So today I discovered some things I already discovered one of the things that broke me down badly I won't describe this

I realized I could spend Bound Balens on a costume this killed nearly 95% of me due to my carelessness but then again i had not noticed this AT
ALL no one told me till i found out in guild chat the first that came out of my mouth was are u kidding me? after all those free balens I
accumulated when they understood me at this I broke down I realized to myself and said dang after all this I could've used em balens for a
costume instead I used my unbound balens so it was my fault I never asked of course my guild mates understood I just went through a living
train wreck this entire time getting the costume and I had no strength to argue I was just too depressed to bother talking I just wanted to get
chained up and never talk for a billion light yrs in a cube like cellar luckily my friends understood this and was trying to get me to come out of it
(lol yah its hard for me to open up or I just clam up) of course this little thing I missed out on rlly hit a number on me because after all the serversI've been in accumulating unbound balens in the server I left my previous one again due to the bullying **** and having a cross server champion destroy my friend in amethyst mine multiple times everyday and seeing her sad face and had no choice but to leave because of it yah........lol the server became corrupt at some point previously before after the merge this champion also caused me to leave the server due to her grudge
against me so I chose to leave when I lost my friend I was enraged on a 95% scale lets add to the fact that this cross server champion bullied me and continuously tried to make me angry and its hard to do that but she managed she likes to poke u till ur driven out of control (yah she's
relentless and merciless) and I never wanted that. I merely wanted to be happy playing wartunes with my friends but me losing my last friend
who was like a sister to me and defending me was something I could no longer take and raged about it ended up in tears especially when I tried
so hard to bring her back. Sorry I was a bit off topic T.T and yah I managed to calm down about the bound balens and stay happy and content thething that scares me now is how many other things now cost bound Balens like sylph skill scrolls now that I know costumes can easily be attained by bound balens but I get the feeling theres a lot more to this now T.T

Sorry to hear about that. I could relate to that. But to avoid that cross-server champion from hitting u in amethyst mines, try to get in when that champion is not around. No player can stay in amethyst mines 24 hours a day and 7 days a week without doing anything else. Try to find out which time that player is on. That kind of thing happens on my server too. We just had to watch out for the BULLY when he or she's around. Try to get your friends to protect you so u can get full carts. You can alternate with them in playing guard I'm sure. Keep the BULLY busy until BULLY has got no time to beat on you. I worked it out with some other players to avoid a nasty BULLY on the server.

If said BULLY is insulting you on the world chat, do not reply or respond to any of their provocations. I have not replied nor responded to any of them and they stopped very quickly. Try to maintain a cool head and think logically. Do your best not to let your emotions get the better of you and think of your actions in a strategic professional manner. This is not easy to do but remember, even a BULLY would run out of steam sooner or later. You are most likely not the only one that the particular BULLY is picking on. One last thing, don't restart on new servers. Starting on new servers just means throwing time and money away since you have to start from the beginning and there is no guarantee that the same bullying incident would not repeat itself. You might as well just quit for good (for me ... if I quit, I quit for good). Work at where you were defeated until you win. Remember, no one can win forever.

[daunapu]

I have met bullies once. Then I grew up.

[Alberteiny]

I have an advise to the OP. Try to punctuate most of your sentences as at now, I don't understand your point.

[secretfox]

which server are you in currently and just name out the bully "champion" to us all if possible. alot of people care about you. dun give us easily. stay happy.

Yes ... we all like to know.

[Caballero1321]

i kind of understand an im not a full english speaker, she just is explainig what happend, is long and a bit hard for me to read, but hell... even me sometimes eat the puntuaction ornothers gramatical rule in spanish, yet i could understand she is ok now and in contact with his frinds on that other server, she talked about her bad experiencies with a guild leader and peeps that did not comprehen her cuz they were brainless, talked about how she try to make him stop politely but was worst and about others matters like what she could do if not using her BB careless and thigs. Talked about her joining day and acivity these years too.

The importan thing is that she si ok now and having fun, the best thing she could do is leave an ingnore the ****... not all the peeps are like me and other that are able to use diplomatic or sadistic skill to deal with those kind of fools, cuz those poor guys are nothing but sad fools that need to chew someone to feel they are impottant and allmighty, an existential issue.

Maybe it's just me, but I always try to write as correctly as possible. I've graduated from bilingual high school (all subjects in Eng), had many lectures in English on the university and I needed to read some paragraphs 2-3 times to slightly understand what she'd meant.


To LadyKayla:

Don't care about people who aren't worth it. It's you, who decide, who to hang out with.
People can be mean, really mean (especially in the Internet), and you need to learn to bear with it.
I know it's hard to ignore people who continuously nag you, but the only thing you can do (in this case) is to completely ignore and carry on. Hang out with people you like.
And don't forget, it's a game after all and it's meant to be fun

[EdGrr]

is this all lies, LadyKayla? screenshot the bully here and show us. if not then all these are just stories made up from your imagination.

[Smudge_67]

I came back after I had found out my once was server merged everything was ok but the champion herself who continuously held the grudge against even if I left the server
I told my guild leader I had to drop this whole thing including her if she kept up with that kind of grudge I wasn't gonna waste time with it plus I retired off the game for a yr due
to my charger not working well at some point I had gotten a new one. If no one couldn't put up with her or deal with her I would leave which almost half my server barely wants me to
leave due to me always making em happy but either way I chose to leave in the end conclusion but would come by to visit them every once in a while to see how well their doing I cant
dismiss my friends from another server I go there from time to time cause they care even tho they cant do much about it. So that's when I moved to a new server
and YES I previously left the server due to some stress with the champion and played a different game LoA and managed to be a bit happy but the game pretty much bores me
to death more than wartunes why me bother spending gold to get more topaz's and all kinds of ***** to increase my br and troops was just too much work and yah the game was a bit
flat out lame worse than wartunes world boss (need I say more? no)

This has also been my second time being bullied I can have fun with casher and non-cashers no big deal there but getting bullied with a cross server with a messed up tension
problem and holding a grudge over me since I've been gone and came back is ridiculous because even the guild leader was sick and tired of her going on about me kicked her
I thought I had ended the whole **** with her by leaving for a new guild and she'd be settled ruling like a queen however she wanted I didn't give a **** about her since she liked
poking me relentlessly in my server for God knows how long like rlly a cross server champion?!

I left for the new server and it served me well and kept me happy and calm I knew it was the best way to get things out of the way only **** that made me say wdf was me not
realizing the costume also costed bound balens it put me to shame how i was that careless my friends understood this half and was kind enough to want me to stay cause I was
always helpful and kind in whatever way I could do n stuff I didnt care about the costume but the shock of how i wasted that many bound balens to feel like a 5% complete idiot
it made me look brainless I lost every friend on the server I previously was in due to the champion some tried to stay n cheer me up but the stress just made me say nothing
and leave and chill out for a long time more like months till i decided for the new server and thus I'm doing well but how many more items is gonna cost bound balens like the
mount itself all its gonna say is we mounts only cost 1995 balens lol it cost 1995 unbound balens as well as bound balens now let me stop right now and let u guys think seriously hard..............................................including u hard core cashers which I will say u guys are pretty awesome and anyways I don't hold grudges over a casher unless its an attitude problem or
are able to make me rage on an unthinkable scale believe me its hard to make me rage AT ALL i usually deal with the problem or drop it instantly and talk to afriend about it and if
nothing is done about it I leave all gone until some time this isn't my first time getting bullied its practically my second and who said lets go separate the servers for
non-cashers and cashers whoever said that oughtta DROP IT NOW I have friends that are cashers at level 80 and they don't want that so I don't wanna hear that sort of
**** from u I love cashers cause they like helping u whenever they have time free time to help whether u ask or not some give a dang if ur non-casher cause ur their friends
that have been with em for a long time enough to say ur worth something to care about rather than dump ya in the trash can and say ur just another flunky so take ur tiny mouth
somewhwere else if u think im some sort of casher hater I treat em like a dang normal friend who can help out and respect ya I like to make people laugh its what I do
not jump on ur a** and terrorize you if u rlly want then fine I'll put myself on the stick and tie myself up and let u roast me till I'm nice n black if u hate me because I cant do
**** against a casher and why me even hold a grudge against a casher? unless it were a serious problem (like I've already stated) they're just like normal spend money have fun with it
and say and smile do what they do best they don't harm u unless u scratch em first me? I can barely scratch em for the life of me so I just play and have fun and talk to
em they're not so mean if some of the non-cashers didn't judge em so often so I pity the hard cashers at times cause they merely just trying I have no time to be hating on a
casher and I'm nowhere near interested in a casher holding a grudge over me since I've been gone for months T.T

Now I in a new server with with cute people who always like to help each other and a guild leader who knows right from wrong I went to my old server to apologize for some
problems of my own as well including the guild leader he understood well about the full situation.

My only problem is the shock of how I spent bound balens carelessly without realizing me could get a costume even a mount with bound balens....

and thank you Linkoneusc for taking the time to read what I said carefully T.T

and Wraithraiser well I cant say much for u maybe it is meaningless to u the way ur reading it I guess but for me it makes me think way back to how much of an idiot I was......
rlly I could've conserved and gotten something worthwhile like u guys I don't have problems with cashers unless they're completely insane enough to love torturing u endlessly
which if u were me you'd hate that u don't know her too well already the first ranking guild hates her gummy guts and kicked her but I was kicked way before her for raging
at her just cause she put me through a living wreck as I've told her to stop more than once without the guild leader not using any common sense but to kick me without thinking
it through like half the guild thought he wasnt using his brain but I didn't care I took that and moved on to another guild hoping this was done COMPLETELY all she wanted was to
eradicate me but many disagree on wanting me gone so I visit em from time to time cause their my friends its like saying I chewed on a cookie and left it there without finishing it
when mommy gives u a plate of cookies enjoy it and eat it all off or share it with friends don't just chew it and leave it there without finishing it and giving it to a friend no one
wants ur germs u FINISH DA COOKIE especially if its chocolate chip (which is the best cookie on the planet Earth) T.T

Bullying is commonplace in every realm, especially by some hardcore cashers who want everything today not tomorrow.

If ignoring the person doesn't work then try a name change, but don't tell anyone is my best advice(leave your guild 1st then re-apply later).

Remember it's a game for you to enjoy, don't let a stranger spoil it for you

[EdGrr]

Bullying is commonplace in every realm, especially by some hardcore cashers who want everything today not tomorrow.

If ignoring the person doesn't work then try a name change, but don't tell anyone is my best advice(leave your guild 1st then re-apply later).

Remember it's a game for you to enjoy, don't let a stranger spoil it for you

unless she post a screen shot or something here, if not all this might just be stories of her own imagination. i somehow got this feeling..

[ArtemisS58]

the bound balen thing is her fault i was also gone for a year wen i got back there were these bb instead of vouchers.

So i had no freaking clue what it was about. i searched around read the description and it only took me a few seconds to find out bb cant be used for hot events only and i already began planning to use bb on evrything i could that it could be used on.

as for the bullying thing it exists cause people are all fags that got to put people down to make themselves feel good. people who think they were chosen by god or something.
they exist everywhere these type of scumbags. so you:
a. ignore them
b. deal with it.
c. wait for the day humanity goes extinct.
im waiting for c ^_^

[EdGrr]

see.. so many days past and i already saw another of her crying blog somewhere complaining about the rest of the others many games she have played.. blah blah blah.. where is the screenshot lier?

[KS222]

It is hard to tell what she is trying to say, but it sounds like anger over bullies and over accidentally spending the wrong form of balen.
Bullies seem quite common in MMORPGs. I see it quite a bit in PvP events where players say nasty things for the entertainment value (and screenshotting/reporting the behavior usually gets little result; R2's "support elves" apologize for the behavior but nothing is done about it). It's the curse of internet anonymity; you can be a huge jerk and nobody knows who you really are, so it's hard for your behavior to come back to haunt you offline. Most do it just because they enjoy the reaction they get from tormenting others. "Entertainment" at other's expense.
I've been lucky in that my server (kongregate 5, shows as 7 on cross server) has a very good community; we have our jerks and trolls, but the decent people are able to keep them from getting out of hand. We had a couple bullies when the server was young, but they have long since quit. They were the kind of bully that got into the top guild by BR and were "untouchable" because the guild master needed them for wins. That changed when the top BR non bullies got sick of the toxic environment in guild chat and left. The top guild fell apart rapidly after that and the bullies found they were not welcome in any other guild; they were trapped on a sinking ship.
Bound balen seem to make everyone mad. It's nice they gave non cashers a way to get some stuff for free, but when they made the change, some prices went up by a factor of 20 because they simply replaced the word "voucher" with "balen". Inventory space used to be cheap, as did skill reset and talent reset. It's also very easy to spend the wrong kind or even to accidentally spend balen when you didn't mean to. Most things have a confirmation pop up, but not all. Those check boxes can also play tricks on you; think it's checked or unchecked, click okay, and the wrong thing happens.